HAPPY 2ND ANNIVERSAY PATYCON !!!!

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 When I call you my best friend, some might think I mean 'let your husband be your bestfriend Kinna thing' but no not at all . When I say Besty, I mean my best friend, that person that from the start I saw and thought of as a high school boy that wanted to just chat with me 😀😀, the small boy that was always in shorts and T-shirts. when I call you best friend I mean that guy that slowly charmed me with his humility and personality, when I call you best friend, I mean that friend that was there when I had friends and when I lost friends. I men that one friend that even in good times, bad times, worst times, and ugly times was there for me . that person that saw me at my good and bad moments and yet chose to stay and still does, 

Before my dad passed away we were dating. To him, it was a marriage at first sight and he always said so lol! My dad's death affected me so badly, I was on the verge of giving up on school, on life. I even gave up on friendship. I pushed everyone away including him. I broke up with him 5 times and each time I did he came back either with a flash drive containing info for research work, or a wifi box with enough data for me to keep studying as I was in my final year in school. He never gave up on me . He would always say, "I know you are in a place of grief, this isn't you, you are hurting from the loss of losing your dad"😭😭. He stayed, he understood me!. Chickito ! no matter how hard I tried to push you away, you stayed, you were there. My rock, my pillar, my cornerstone, my hero. Yes, I lost my dad who was my then best friend but God gave me you another best friend, a greater one (no offense dad, still your baby girl for life😀). 

Chickito! You left me no choice but to fall hopelessly in love with you. Over the years I have come to understand what friendship means thanks to you. I had friends but I couldn't be their friend because it took me you to know what friendship means. thanks to you I know me better. You showed and you still show me love, passion, patience, peace, true peace. Yes, you are my second chance to live, for I lost myself when dad died but you found me. God gave me a second chance through you. You are my lover, my mentor, my teacher, my therapist, my counselor, my peace, my favorite place. but above all, you are my best friend and I adore you. Happy 6 years of dating, happy 2nd wedding anniversary my love ! Grateful to God for another year.

 I LOVE YOU! TO US! TO PATYCON ! IT'S ALL ABOUT GRACE AND GRATITUDE🙏! 




























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